WHAT IS THE WORLD COMING TO???

Ok so I was all prepared to blog about something completely different but when this particular incident was shared with me, I felt I had to speak on it with the world or whomever may come across this blog. This weekend I have heard some of the MOST disturbing news that I have ever heard in my life. You know a lot of things are prevalent in the world today that weren’t ten years ago. I think our culture has been exposed to so much in terms of violence and crime, blood and gore that we have grown used to the everyday happenings of the world and nothing surprises us anymore.

In saying that, even though we are exposed to such violence on the news, prime time television and or movies, I hope that it doesn’t ruin our capability to feel and cry for the world and the state that we are presently in. What I was told has rocked me to the core and I have not recuperated yet. I, having not been a witness, have been scarred and my heart cries for the people involved in this madness.

A girlfriend of mine has a client who happens to be a principal of a middle school in an urban, working class town in New Jersey. When she arrived for her normal Friday evening appointment she appeared disheveled and distressed and had apparently been crying. My friend being very comfortable with her client asked her what was the matter and the story she was told blew her mind as it did mine when I was told! The principal had been in her office conducting normal business as it was the end of the school day and she was preparing things for Monday morning. The only children that remained in school were those who attended the afterschool program. As she was taking care of paperwork a young boy burst into her office, “Ms. Principal, Ms. Principal, come with me I have to show you something!!!” By the look on his face and the tone of his voice she grew nervous and scared as she didn’t know what to expect. Where she was led was to the boys bathroom and what she found were two 7th grade boys engaging in full on hard core sex!! Losing every bit of her composure she began screaming and yelling at the boys, “WHAT ARE YOU DOING??” over and over again. The boys were separated and taken into different rooms while the police, DYFS and parents were called.

The young boy who was actually having sex with other child was asked where did he learn this, and his answer was… that his parents had been both having sex with him.

Sidebar- Oh MY GOD!!!!! DID HE JUST SAY THAT BOTH OF HIS PARENTS WERE HAVING SEX WITH HIM? I think what bothers me most is that as a parent, I know how I love my son with my whole heart, I would kill for my little boy and to think that a woman or a man would make their own flesh and blood, make their own child take part in their twisted perversion sickens me. I can’t understand at all how this is even feasible in one’s mind!!! How do you even fantasize about having sex with your child??? The mind is a perverted place. All acts of crime can happen in the mind, but to even physically act on such a thing hurts me to my heart. I feel so bad that this poor boy had been exposed to such madness. I think what really gets to me is that usually you hear stories about one parent who secretly abuses the child and eventually it comes to the light. But for two parents to come together and agree to both molest their son is frightening!!!

He said in front of the principal, parents, police and DYFS that both his mother and father had forced him to have sex with them and that’s where he learned it from. He was forced to have full on sex wit both his mother and his father!!! At this point the principal had gone temporarily insane hysterically screaming at the parents who had nonchalantly spoken “Why are you lying on us?” obviously lying themselves. The boy was taken into custody until they could find a family member who was willing to take him in, while both parents where read their rights and hauled out of the school in handcuffs. I personally hope that they rot in jail and are punished to highest extent of the law!!

I have to say that I feel sorry for all of the people involved in this story. I feel sorry for the little boy who has had his innocence taken from him by the very people who were supposed to take care of him and protect him. I feel sorry for the boy who whether consented to this act or was coerced because he allowed his body to be taken and used in a way that he as a 12 year old isn’t able to comprehend. I feel sorry for the little boy who just had to use the bathroom and had his innocence torn from him as the blinders of his childhood had been taken off by witnessing sex between two children. I feel sorry for the principal who studied to become an educator to empower children and protect them and to feel inadequate in finding what was going on in her school walls right under her nose. I feel sorry for the parents of the little boy who walked in to see this and the knot that must be twisting in their stomach of how to explain to their son what he just saw. I pray for you all. I pray for the world.

As a parent I am angered and hurt at the same time. I can’t imagine how I would feel if my baby, my son walked into the bathroom and saw two kids having sex. After hearing this story I am seriously considering the alternatives, private school or home school. WOW… WHAT IS THIS WORLD COMING TO?

Thank you for listening to me go on about this, I hope that it’s motivated the ones who have read this to pray for our children, pray for their outcome in this world, pray for their parents or other people to positively influence their lives.

Signing out sending peace & blessings,

Daddy’s Girl