Have you ever been in a long term relationship, one that you thought that you would be in for the rest of your life and then that dream crashed and burned and you were thrust back into the dating world and don’t know what to do or where to start?
At some point after you dry your tears and mend your broken heart you will have to face the inevitable and begin to get back out there and date. As most women do when we shed dead weight, we get a new hair-do, try out some new makeup, buy a new wardrobe and even shed a few pounds in preparation to meet the next Mr. Right. Once all that is done, it’s back to kissing frogs and hoping that one of them will reveal their true identity as a prince!
From experience I know that the dating game isn’t very fun… I mean I guess that it can be eventually once you get into the groove of things, but from one serial monogomer to another you get tired of the “first dates”, the awkward moments of silence and trying to figure out if they like you or not, or even more importantly if you like them! And what about this whole internet dating craze??? I know it’s not “new” but the ability to hide behind a computer screen and make yourself appear however you want to appear is an even scarier thought! How do you know that this person really looks like the pictures on their profile? How do you know if that person really works where they say they work or drive what they say they drive or doesn’t really live at home rent free in his mom’s basement????? GASP!!
In my humble opinion dating SUCKS! That is until you finally meet someone who’s worth all the frogs you had to kiss in order to get him… that’s when you look forward to going on a date and having flirty conversation and making a connection with someone. I guess when dating you have to take risks, go out with someone that you may not normally go out with, try to meet someone where you may not normally frequent. I come from a world of sales, and our motto is the more no’s you get the closer you are to getting a yes! So just because you’ve had a a few too many “first dates” continue to be open minded and keep in the back of you head that you are that much closer to meeting he who was made perfect for you!
Happy Dating!
MzCeo
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