Hey J Spot! Yes I know it’s been a while since I’ve put up new posts, but I’ve been posting some TRUTHS on Facebook and some of them hit home with my Facebook Fam so I decided to post them here and get your thoughts, or just give you something to think about. So get ready for the countdown to the number one Truth in Relationships.
# 12. Don’t ask questions you really don’t want to hear the answer to… If you do, be prepared to deal with the truth whether it’s GOOD or BAD!
#11. Looks can be deceiving… after you find something that you like stop looking, the grass isn’t always greener on the other side. (This rule applies to everything in life.)
#10. Rule of thumb: Don’t jump the gun… just like you should wait for him to say I love you first, don’t change your FB status to “in a relationship: while his still says “single” let him make the first move towards a relationship!
#9. “Witholding from him” in order to teach him a lesson only opens the door to temptation. Keep in mind tht what you won’t do… the next one will!
#8. If a relationship feels like too much work after the first month, it’ll be 10 times harder a year from now. Learn how to cut your losses…
BONUS: Keep it spicy! There’s nothing more boring that predictability! Think outside the box!
#7. Yes men love an independent girl but that doesn’t mean to act aloof. Still show him you care and that you have his back!
#6. Men appreciate a woman’s independence. It turns a guy off to think that they are responsible for your day-to-day happiness. Keep regular dates with your girlfriends or take up a hobby. Moral of the story: KEEP YOUR OWN IDENTITY!
#5. When a man likes you he will pursue you… Turning the tables around and openly pursuing a man although initially flattering can soon come off desperate and loose and leaves you open to be treated… well, “desperate and loose!”
BONUS: Learn to cook… Cooking breakfast or dinner doesn’t set us back 50yrs! Being domesticated as well as an intelligent business savvy woman only elevates your game!!!
#4. Check out his friends… If they aren’t about anything 9 times out of 10 neither is he…
BONUS: Infidelity is not inevitable, but fidelity is a gift you give to somebody that you have to work hard at continuing to give…
#3. If a man breaks up with you out of the blue, the out-of-the-blue part is really only on your end.
#2. Ladies you CANNOT change him!!! If you look at him as a project he’ll never live up to your expectations… Either love him for who he is right at this moment or leave him alone…
And FINALLY TRUTH #1:
Don’t be tired of fake men be tired of you falling for fake men… There are some good guys out there but you are not doing a good job of weeding through the bad ones to get to the good ones! Readjust your goggles and see with clear vision!
Thanks for reading!
MzCeo
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