Alright fellas, we have had it!! What is up with you guys being so disrespectful! Nowadays it seems like two minutes into an introduction with a guy and he’s already steering the conversation to sex with slick comments! And then when you call him on it, he says something like, “I was just tryna see where your head was” Hmph… Are you kidding me??? Because if I was down, you wouldn’t have been trying to see where my head was! Why are men seemingly totally comfortable speaking to us this way? Are we women lowering our standards that much that we accept this kind of behavior? Is that why they feel it is ok to talk to us that way or are these men bred to be awfully bold? I think we have to take the blame on this, at least the women that are accepting this behavior need to, because they are the ones who are making it bad for all of the rest of us.
Thank God I’m out of the rat race, however this is for my girls that are still out there trying to find Mr. Right, but first have to weed through all the nonsense!
And guys why in this day and age are you so quick to talk about sex with all that’s out there, sex isn’t just sex anymore…. those days of “free love” are long gone! These days we have got to be more discerning about who we date and what we do with these people don’t you think? Not everyone deserves a cookie for your cookie jar. I know there’s a double standard when it comes to men and women and their sexuality, men the more you bed the more manly you are considered, but even you could learn to slow it down because you being so quick to “take her down” could leave you with more than you bargained for. Ladies, I know we’re in the year of 2010 and you feel all liberated and think that you can do anything a man does, but there are some things that we were taught that defines a lady that shouldn’t be tossed to the side. We need to stop being so quick to give it up because he’s cute or has a slick tongue because we’re getting left with the short end of the stick. STD’s take longer to manifest in a woman because our organs are internal therefore can do much more harm to us than to a man, so let’s stop giving ourselves a bad name.
Back to you “men” I know when you’re still young you are out there trying to sow your wild oats, and when you finally bump into Mrs. Right you’ll most likely calm down… but what happens when Mrs. Right considers you Mr. Wrong because of your past, wouldn’t that just be unfortunate? I know I’m not going to stop every guy from being just who they are by reading this article, but I do hope that some smart guy out there will think twice before being so slick with the tongue. I mean you are who you attract, so if you want to attract a good woman, then you in turn have to be a good man… and ladies the same rule works for you, if you want to attract a good man, you have to be a good woman! Do your homework, know what it is a man expects from a woman and be prepared to do that. Some of us ladies are too independent for our own good, we don’t want to cook and don’t know how, we don’t want to clean and we don’t want to nurture or be attentive… I’m sorry ladies… I don’t know not one man who would be ok with that for long… there’s only so much you can do in the bedroom that will keep his attention. Learn to take care of your men as well as be that business woman you have to be a triple threat, beauty, brains and well booty! lol
So as I beg for the real men, the gentleman to stand to their feet… I ask of you real women to stand up. That’s the only way you’ll ever find eachother.
Happy Dating,
MzCeo
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Zarinah
Nice work. I rely think it’s ladies’ fault. 2 desp no dignity nowadays. Ah ur right even tho I hate house jobs it’s wot I do well too lol.!
This generation are a narcissistic one,because it’s all about self,back in the day like the 50′s and 60′s the men were more of a gentleman. These days they believe being tuff and a thug is what’s in, this is the wrong attitude to have. Women are gentle flowers and need to be treated as such,some men have loss respect for women. I believe it starts at home,because the first woman in a boys life is their mothers. A Narcissistic man hates his mother,so all women are hated,this is a serious problem. When the foundation of the family fall everyone suffer,children more so than the rest,because they need guiding in this crazy world,if they don’t get this guiding they end up failing. They will end-up learning from the STREETS! The streets is COLD, unforgiving and Dangerous, Families lets TAKE BACK OUR CHILDREN BEFORE IT”S TO LATE! LET”S BRING BACK THE GENTLEMAN! A WORD FROM THE WISE! PEACE!